Anonymous asked:

Have you had much luck finding love? I have the worst luck. The guy I really liked went back to his ex. I was foolish enough to think my presence could make him love me and pursue a relationship with me.


I have no issues finding love because I’ve stopped looking for it. For me, love is a state of mind. I’ve accepted that I’m a loving person and that I am the only person who can limit myself from feeling loved. Love has nothing to do with luck. Focus all of your attention and intention on being a loving person rather than being loved, love will then find you. I used to have a bad habit of putting romantic love on a pedestal. Love is love. No particular type of love is more important than the other. You have love in your life already, acknowledge and appreciate it. 

It simply wasn’t written of y’all to be together. Focus on yourself and let the thought of him disappear from your mind. xx


Put the wood on her
Please don’t expect me to always be good and kind and loving. There are times when I will be cold and thoughtless and hard to understand.
- Sylvia Plath (via suspend)

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